Am I being silly?

[tiggywinkle]

ibus - i doubt they will change, you will probably have to change how you feel about it - try not to let it depress you, they just arent worth it.

[scottie]

I think Ouma or Ibus would sound fine, easy for a little 'un to pronounce as well. Calling a grandparent by their first name is not right, no matter what the numpty rellies think I think they're going all out to see how many ways they can p*ss you off, nothing new there though mind you.

[boozysuzy]

Set of tossers, but then we've always know that!

It's quite easy for me to say F*ck 'em etc. I know in reality it is hurting you like hell. I was going to say doesn't your other half say anything to them? But I know it would not make things any better, they would just be pleased they had the rise out of you!

I would have moved away from the lot of them by now and started a new, happier life

[ibus]

I went to see the Dr today. Lovely women let me talk and cry and didn't hurry me up, must have been close to half an hour with her. She didn't feel medication would help, as the situation won't change (I didn't want to insist, but surely if happy pills make me happy, then I won't give a toss about the situation!) And removing myself from the situation won't help, because then both Gary and I will be unhappy and it would ruin the only good part of this mess and the little bastards would just crow because they'd won.
She's going to contact the pyschologist I saw before and ask him to set up an appointment with me. He helped a lot before, hopefully he can help me again through this.

[taoom]

Fecking wankers the lot of them.

They will need you before you need them Ibus.

I cannot add to what has already been said Ibus.

{{{{ HUGS }}}